Excited or Stressed?

In a meeting with my Professional Development Manager this week, I was reflecting on my year. She asked the question, ‘Now that you’ve been here, are you more or less excited or more or less stressed when you consider finishing University?’

Hmmmmm.

I think back to securing my placement. Stressful. For the fear of being sent to the last place on Earth you wanted to be, doing the worst job you could imagine, you just HAD to find a placement. Whilst keeping on top of everything else of course. So when you spend 3 days writing an application, submit it and receive an automatically generated email within 2 minutes of pressing the button, your heart kind of sinks. Especially knowing, you’ve got to go through it all over again.

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Will looking for a grad job be exactly the same?

I was having coffee with my Mum and I was talking about some options I was considering for when I complete my degree. She exclaimed, ‘Isn’t this just so exciting?!’ The idea of just starting out, with so many paths in front of you made my mum green with envy. ‘You have the chance to do exactly what you want to.’

Is she right? So why don’t we feel excited?

Maybe we’ve become cynical; because there’s so much competition we’ll never get a job and we’ll be paying off out student loans forever, and we’ll never be able to afford to buy a house…

These are statements I hear a lot. I blame the media. However, none of them are fundamentally true. I’ve come to thinking that I got here didn’t I? Why would a grad job be any different? In fact, I’m in a better position than I was before with a year’s industrial work experience under my belt and a number of people I could turn to for advice or support. I also have a much clearer idea of what it is I want.

So actually, although placement/job hunting can be a stressful experience, let’s start getting excited! There really is so much to look forward to.

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Love Serenna xxx

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